Thursday 18 August 2016

Confused state of Life ;)

Love,breakups,dreams,confusion,moustache ,grooming, aggression,mood swings.I hope these sums up the stage of life - Teenage.

A beautiful butterfly goes through a ugly stage of worm,lazy stage of cocoon.After crossing these stages it comes out with a beautiful flying colours!! Well this is how we humans are..Darwin's theory of evolution is never wrong u see.

Soon after we reach our highs schools,our minute things of life start changing.Right from wardrobe to thought process in our wrinkled brain.I still remember I had once dreamt of a movie hero as my soul mate.I had imagined myself as a lovely princess.Teenage is such a confused stage of life where we start taking a path of becoming someone else we adore.Right or wrong but teenage is a very difficult stage of life.

Coming to most dramatic part of teenage is love and breakups.Yes sometimes it's just imaginatory and sometimes dead real.
Those cute love letters now which seems so funny,those scribbling first letters of names.Wow those were just few!! Slam books which implicitly had the slot for your crush name.So many secrets that we started, continued during our teenage which are always fresh in our memory.

 Some had only fallen in love with books  and some had only fallen in love :)

Parents were always wrong for us. "We knew much better than them"  this was the myth we used to follow. Sometimes when I sit back and think, I feel its okay to do few silly mistakes which I still refresh and laugh at.
Teenage is a beautiful stage of life too,where we carve our future and weave beautiful memories for our life time.Those silly mistakes are Lessons for life in which some are better to hide and some good to flaunt!! Teenage is a dream which always fights hard to come over reality!! Hope we have become a beautiful butterfly ;)




Thursday 11 August 2016

Growing Up- A boon or a curse

I still remember the days where I wanted to be free from exams,free from studies, free from books.I wanted to work, I wanted to be like other grown up women who used to dress up and drive to work.I always thought its fun to be grown up.
Did u also had this stage in life.I am sure 99% people would have thought the same.
Now when I have achieved this, why I am thinking to go back to my dreamy childhood days. why I want to go back to my school,why I want to face exams than interviews, why I want to still take a nap in my mom's lap and cradle in dad's shoulder.
Funny right.Yes this is what I call growing up.
As I see my parents growing old I feel can I stop growing. When I see my granny who was once actively running behind us, just lying in bed,I feel like I should never wished to grow up.
Nowadays I get to hear  news like someone got admitted,  someone is counting their last days.This makes me feel little weird to think can't life stay constant. can't we be the same as we all were ten years back.
But no,life is what you call box of surprises. It not only gives you sour lemon but also sweet candies.
Growing up shows you many phases of life where you take responsibility of your parents and give them some rest so that they enjoy their retirement. You start making them feel proud with your achievements which they dreamt of. You start giving them little joys which your parents never even asked you.Growing up makes you enjoy the bonding with your brother in even more matured and beautiful way.
Lovely isn't it.When I started writing this blog I had only negative things about growing up but as I proceeded I could find so many beautiful things about growing up.
Let's dream king life so that life shows us dreamy life with beautiful people around.
Live life love life :)